I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I've been single for 2 years now, was in a bad relationship and have become very picky and and just taking my time. Joined a dating site and met a guy was had been separated for 8 months. Me 28, him 26. We went out a few times for about a week, towards the end of that week it got sexual and then he deicded he wasn't ready to date.
I'll admit I was a little hurt b/c of rejection and was like whatever, but I couldn't stop thinking about him and our similar situations and thought we could be good friends. For a whole week I debated on emailing him and every day said I would just leave it alone. I'm usually really good about not giving a crap and moving on, but at the end of the week I emailed him saying we could be friends and what not since we're both kinda new to the area and didn't have many friends. He said sure and then mentioned a no strings kinda thing. I figured I needed a break from dating and said why not, everyone has needs right??
It has been almost 3 months now and I like this guy, I think we have a lot of things in common and he's just pretty much everything I want, but I am confused about what he may be thinking. At first we would text maybe once or twice a week and maybe see eachother about that much. After awhile the texting picked up to where it's every day a few times a day. I'm very shy so it took awhile for me to start openeing up. When the texting picked up so did the visits, I wouldn't sleep over at first b/c I wasn't comfortable, but finally started to. He started asking me to come over just to hang out, cuddle, go to bed with him, no sex. This past weekend I stayed over fri, sat, sun and will be tonight. I always let him text me first and he always invites me over, i don't ask to come over. Also after we decided on the no strings thing we would just hang out the house and maybe two weeks ago he started asking me out to dinners and what not. Sometimes he'll ask me not to leave or recently he has started saying things like oh how about you ask your sister and her b/f if they wanna go to the movies even though he has never met my family.
I don't want to ask him about it all yet b/c I don't want to scare him off as i'm enjoying his company and right now i'll take what I can get, even if I am setting myself up for hurt, but does it sound like this could possibly turn into more down the road??
Thanks in advance for anyone who took the time to read this and respond!!