I been with my bf for 4 years now and we live together ..Guys would u know if she is the one u want to marry by now ? Are im i wasting my time with him thinking he would asked me to marry him ..
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12-08-10, 05:50 AM #1
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SHould i stay are go
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12-08-10, 06:18 AM #2
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how old are you both?
he may also think that he doesn't need marriage to show that he loves you.They called us a dead generation,
They told us that we wouldn't survive
They left us alone in the maelstrom
As you can see we're all clearly alive.
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12-08-10, 06:21 AM #3
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and what dyu mean should you stay or go? would you leave if he doesn't propose soon or something?
They called us a dead generation,
They told us that we wouldn't survive
They left us alone in the maelstrom
As you can see we're all clearly alive.
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12-08-10, 06:22 AM #4
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He is 29 going on 30 and i am 26 years old ..
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12-08-10, 05:58 PM #5
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Have you talked to him about this??
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12-08-10, 11:28 PM #6
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I been with my guy almost 4 years now he's 33 and I'm 26. I know he will marry me it's just not right now.
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13-08-10, 01:07 AM #7
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yes i have talked to him about it ..He tells me he doesn't have a crystal ball
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13-08-10, 01:09 AM #8
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how exatly did you talk about it that you got an "I don't have a crystal ball" answer?
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13-08-10, 01:31 AM #9
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I just asked him if we will ever get married ..and that what he always give me and he tells me he like's how things are why change things ..also that he says that i have some Issues to work out ..who doesn't have issues to work out ...
Rite now i am not happy with myself ..if i am not happy how could i make someone else happy ..maybe i need to let him go so i could work on myself ..Last edited by babysexy; 13-08-10 at 01:35 AM.
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13-08-10, 01:36 AM #10
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That doesn't sound promising. He seems to be afraid of commitment. He doesn't need a magic crystal ball to figure out if he wants to marry you, he just needs some self-awareness and some respect for you and your needs.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
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13-08-10, 01:39 AM #11
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Thats what my friend told me too
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13-08-10, 10:27 AM #12
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Originally Posted by babysexy
If you add this up, both of you has got problems. Don't get married yet. Marriage is not there to solve problems. It can even create MORE problems. Solve both your problems THEN talk about marriage. Originally Posted by VincenzoG91
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