Does she like me?

[tiffanysb]

So iv been talking to this girl for more than a month now.
we've known eachother for a couple years, just havent gotten as close as we are now.
we probably hangout at least once a week, and text eachother almost everyday.
She always asks me to hang out, and last week she took me to a concert and paid for my ticket which was like 70 dollars.
i mean i offered to pay for both of ours but she just wouldnt take the money because she got them before we met up.
I just got home from hanging out with her and im kicking myself for not letting her know how i feel.(i like her)
do you guys think she likes me? i mean i feel like we sort of act like a couple, the touching barrier is def broken, i can touch her and not feel awkward, we drink from the same straw, and always hug.
i just have that feeling in the back of my head that maybe she just wants to be friends, but i dont know.
any opinions would help, thanks.

[kitkitkitty]

the only way you'll find out is by asking her. like you say, she could just generally be a touchy-feely person and see you as a great friend.

[nerdy_guy]

Set for a quiet mood where both of you are alone, then TELL her you like her. You're a guy. Guys don't ask. Only girls do.

[tiffanysb]

well i was just wondering if she would do all this just to be friends.
i mean when we first met, she admitted to really liking me, but its been so long so i dont know if she has the same feelings for me anymore.
I think she was 10, and i was 11. and she asked me out, but i said no. It seemed more of a crush type thing.
So she was obviously attracted to me at one point, i'm just wondering if its posisble she might be getting the same feelings she had for me before again, even though its been like 6 years.
I want to tell her, i have everything planned out when im not around her, but when im with her i just feel like whatever i have planned out is so dumb and i just get nervous because i might get rejected and ruin our friendship.

[nerdy_guy]

Love is suppose to be corny dude. And the only time it would ruin your friendship is either if you dwell on it, or pester her about it. Otherwise, If she says NO then leave it as it was before and act like it never happened.

[tiffanysb]

Love is suppose to be corny dude. And the only time it would ruin your friendship is either if you dwell on it, or pester her about it. Otherwise, If she says NO then leave it as it was before and act like it never happened.

i feel you.
i think im just going to go for it the next time we hangout.
i just feel like when its time im going to chicken out :/ lol.
i'v been through this with another girl where i took so long to make a move, she just gave up on me because she though i didnt like her..
i def dont want that to happen here.

[nerdy_guy]

Look at it this way then. You only need to do this once, and it'll only last for a few minutes (before you pass out from all the tension). After that, she's all yours

Heres a tip: Stop thinking too much! She's your friend, she'll understand

[tiffanysb]

Look at it this way then. You only need to do this once, and it'll only last for a few minutes (before you pass out from all the tension). After that, she's all yours

unless she says no

[nerdy_guy]

Worry about that when you get there. It's not like she'll slap you for telling her you're soooooooo in love with her you know.

[tiffanysb]

Worry about that when you get there. It's not like she'll slap you for telling her you're soooooooo in love with her you know.

thanks man im just going to go for it.
to girls though, how do you guys feel about getting asked out over the phone or through a text?
i'm so against it, and i would feel really weird if i did it but i feel like its so much easier to do.

[nerdy_guy]

Go for it, its just an invite anyway. Don't tell her where you're going though. Tell her to meet up with you then go together to your romantic spot. Good luck!

[tiffanysb]

Go for it, its just an invite anyway. Don't tell her where you're going though. Tell her to meet up with you then go together to your romantic spot. Good luck!

haha would a restaurant be a bad place?
does it have to be somewhere where we would be alone?

[nerdy_guy]

For me, it would be best to be alone. I'd feel more awkward if there are a lot of people around and I'm pouring my heart out. It's all up to you though.

[tiffanysb]

For me, it would be best to be alone. I'd feel more awkward if there are a lot of people around and I'm pouring my heart out. It's all up to you though.

thats exactly what i was thinking.
maybe the walk home?

[nerdy_guy]

If its a long walk home. It would be nice though if you could look into her eyes and talk for a while after. The walk home for me feels more like this:

"blah blah blah.... and oh! by the way, I like you a lot, bye!" Rather than being it said first, get a little flustered, a bit awkward, holding hands going home, a kiss at the door, and you get a big sigh after you finish mission hahaha...