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    Help!!!

    I like this girl from my class but she is shy and so am i. i dun know what to do. i never talked to her since we just started school. can anyone give me some advice on what to do???

    Thanks

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    Grow a pair of balls and talk to her.
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    i know that i have to talk to her but i dun know what to talk abt...im bad at these kind of stuff

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    Use your class as an opener, i mean once you break the ice it becomes much easier.

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    Say anything. Say you like vodka martinis.
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    Lol...I'll talk to her next time we meet. But, my friends and her friends might think that its weird for me talking to a girl who just transferred in my school. I don't like it when people think I'm weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by icheat22 View Post
    Lol...I'll talk to her next time we meet. But, my friends and her friends might think that its weird for me talking to a girl who just transferred in my school. I don't like it when people think I'm weird.
    Nah, don't worry about seeming weird. It would be weird for you not to talk to her.
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    Ok, thanks but i get nervous when i talk to girls whom i like. how do i get over this?

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    It's natural. You just have to deal with the butterfly feeling.
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    i hate that feeling...and the girl i like always looks sad and gloomy...never saw her laugh or smile when I make funny comments in class. this is going to be hard.

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    start by asking her if she's ok.. if she says yes then go onto talk about where she was transferred from blablabla. if she says no, ask her whats wrong, that you're a trustworthy person and that you're there if she needs someone to talk to. explain that you're shy too and find it hard to express feelings but seeing as you both are you could keep each other company. ask for her e-mail address and say that you'd like to talk to her a bit more then you take the pressure off somewhat.
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    thanks for the advice

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