Hi everyone,
I'm new on the forum, and am pretty desperate, I'd love some help!
I don't know what to do about this guy I think might be starting to like me/fall in love with me.
We've been friends for a long time (about 5 yrs) but have got to know each other better just lately. We've got a lot of things in common and get on well but he's started flirting with me and saying things like how nice my hair smells and stuff. I like him as a friend and enjoy his company very much (we spend quite a lot of time together) but my other friends have started commenting on our relationship and saying that he's "hitting on me" and teasing us but I'm not sure I want to go that far...
We go out and about together with others and have spent time alone; he's never made a pass at me but we have sat toghether, put our heads on each other's shoulders, and he lets me lie with my head on his knee... He's like a good friend and I feel comfortable and safe with him (especially when we're alone with no-one to comment on us), but at the same time I can't work out our relationship. It's all really confusing; on one side I kind of like the situation and keep thinking about him, but on the other hand I'm getting a bit uncomfortable and just want to stay mates... I don't know if I'm falling for him or not and it's all just really wierd! Do I have a sort of crush on him? Does he have a crush on me? And whatever the answers to those questions, what should I do??? I really don't want to hurt his feelings and it would be great if we could stay friends...
Has anyone got any advice for me?
(Omg, I just re-read my post and it sounds really self obssessed, I'm sorry; the whole thing is really mixing me up though...)