There's this girl who I've only really ever spoken to on Facebook (she goes to my school's sister school). We're really good e-friends and used to stay up all night talking to each other as strictly friends. Then some idiot told her that I liked her (in a dating fashion), and we had the following conversation:
Her: Someone told me who you like xoxo
Me: Really now?
Her: Yeah... just tell me so I can answer you xoxo
At this point, I realised that I do like her, a lot, but we'd never really met in real life - only in passing with a "hi" and smile.
Me: Well then The person I like is really annoying and keeps me up talking all night :-P
Her: Haha, I bet she's beautiful aswell :-P Just tell me xoxo
Here, I don't know what to say. As I said, I like her, but that's weird - but I don't wanna say that I don't like her aswell, so..
Me: Fine, I like you.
Her: Well... I guess I like someone else.
Me: Thankgod you said that... I really can't be bothered to like anyone right now. I just said that to stop you pestering me.
Her: Oh, ok, well thats good.
Ever since then, our friendship has taken a turn for the worst.
We spoke amiably over the net a few times, but nothing like we used to do.
Yesterday I went to watch my friends soccer grandfinal, in which team she also plays. I tried to say hi, but she seemed to avoid me.
And then I was sitting with my friend after the game, talking. She walks past, looks at my friend says "bye" that gives me a real bitchy look and walks off. I didn't say anything back.
Then I get home and she makes a point of asking me if some other guy was at my house - with no basis to ask me this question... (via email this is). I ask her if she needs urgent contact with this guy, because I could simply ring him for her and she tells me it was nothing...
I'm really confused. Did she want me to ask her out all the way back then? Or was she simply uninterested in me, and that's why we didn't really speak much after that - but then why the look yesterday? Or was she hurt by what I said?
I can't ever see her liking me, she's really good looking and could get most people in my grade - I doubt she'd stoop to my level... but then why would she be actively un-amiable with me. Not even say "hi" when she was standing right next to me yesterday? Not even a smile or a nod? Just a glare and a walk away...