I met this guy in mid-July this year through a mutual friend. From day one we have been in constant communication. For our first meeting we went to the beach and talked for hours. He told me that his ex hurt him badly and that its hard for him to be in other relationships because of all the past drama. His ex stole his car, lied to him, mistreated him, etc... and now he is very guarded. To make a long story short, we see each other twice a week. When we arent together he'll check in to say "hey, how are you?"
Recently, he has told our mutual friend's husband that him and I are "Talking" (what does "talking" mean?) and then he told two of his co-workers all about me, what I do, where I go to grad school, etc. Tonight him and I hung out. We watched movies and we were very touchy feely as always! So I decided to ask him, "do you like me?" He said, "Oh No! Questions, I dont like questions!!!!" This statement hurt my feelings, I then went on to say that I was a little mad that he didnt answer the question. In addition, I also asked him was he going to answer and he said "maybe!" After some time past, he began to touch on me...I guess that was his way of distracting me. Anywho, I finally told him I wasnt going to ask him anymore questions, he says "You promise? If you dont ask questions will get along fine." I said, "I never ask you questions," and he said, "your right!" My question is what should I do? He's VERY VERY VERY complex. I've never liked someone who doesnt express their feelings and its quite difficult to say the least. I thought if I showed him that he could trust me through my actions then he would let his guard down. Does he like me? Does he not? Dude, is a mystery! Sometimes I feel like Im waisting my time...but he makes me smile when Im around him. What do you suggest? I think he is a good guy, who was hurt by a bad woman... HELP!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks