Need help :(

[kingk]

Basicly theres this girl i like...
shes relaly good looking and everything but i dont no if shes interested in me we never talked but i got her IM and we talked a few times and i really made her laugh alot but when she talks to girls i overhear he talking about old boyfriends
ive never gone out with someone but seems like shes been out with loads of people i aint ugly or anything lol
but i dont no what to do

[schueys_girl]

well i would first suggest talking to her in person, and looking at her reactions that way. When talking to people through IM and the like you cant look at a person's body language, and see how she is really reacting to you.

Im guessing from your post your probably between the ages of 14-16 (sorry if im wrong) and i dont mean any offence by this at all, so not having gone out with someone before is nothing to worry about, and it doesnt matter if she has been out with loads of people either. So dont worry! Just go talk to her, get to know her and take it from there

good luck, let me know how it goes xx

[King Zarathu]

Make her laugh her ass off in person. Show yourself as independent and self-confident. Please, DO NOT cling to her.

[kingk]

HAHA I AM 14-16 LOL GOOD GOING expert
Yeah i will try that also thats that i thought i talked to her abit to much on IM so i stoped and aint speoken for 2 days il wait until she starts with me becuase even tho i made her laugh we kept having LONG LONG convos for some reason couldnt be stoped :/ but thanks

[JasonRebel17]

go talk to her in person, like every1 esle said

[King Zarathu]

if you do otherwise then it will only proceed as on online relationship and nothing will get done.

[kingk]

Yeah but as i said shes been with quite a few guys compared to me with 0 lol
also what do i talk about dont say anything that comes to mind >_<
i need a few subjects lol

[King Zarathu]

talk about something that no guy would ever talk about with a girl. make it interesting. ladies don't want to hear the same boring typical shit from some redneck's mouth.

my favorite: bust on her dude. like... make her laugh.. make fun of her.

[schueys_girl]

lol i am no expert and not that much older than you to be honest mate (ive just turned 20) like everyone else has said and as i said before, talking to her over the internet is a good way to break the ice a bit, but it is no foundation for any sort of 'proper' relationship, unless you just want a purely online version. Go talk to her, have a general conversation about shared interests, nothing to intense (dont wanna scare her away) and after youve done this a couple of times ask her if she wants to do something after school? Depending on her reaction to you in the convos of course

good luck let us know how it goes -x-

[kingk]

Hm theres a prob tho
relgion
im a hindu and shes a muslim
dont wanna be rude but im kinda against muslims after 9/11 who isnt
and they trying to convert me and just REALLY annoying me
not all muslims are bad obviously
but anyways
she seems to be abit religous like learning arabic and that and hindus aint supose to go out with muslims muslims started these rules and all the other relgions got mad e.g
- muslims aint allowed in a church
- muslims get a special way to allah if they convert a christian hindu sikh etc

and i dont no what to do
not just me
but what she will do

[King Zarathu]

dude.. no offence but you're kinda ****ed. how old are you? you're parents might get involved. and just because she wants to learn arabic doesn't mean she's religious.. shitttt i'm wiccan and i speak arabic fluently--read and write that shit too (heh <33 lebanon).

yeah ummmm i don't know.. you can try to work things out of you can just say "aw fukk it" and find somebody else like baby sk8er would