So confused... I really could use a little help!

[Anonyms]

Life gives you questions, and sometimes the answers are so hard to find. So I may need some help :S. Well, i was going out with a girl of my class, i hadn't proposed her yet, but we all knew we were not friends but something much more. After a great time we spent together, and after a long phone conversation, everything changed in my life. She didn't want to talk to me anymore. I can swear that i did nothing to make her hate me or not talk to me to any reason. She didn't want to answer my phone calls, and didn't want to reply to my text messages. Since that day we haven't talked anymore (have been around 2 months). The thing that hurts me more is that were was no break-up or no fighting... She just decided to not answer me anymore :S. I asked through social networks her best friend, but she kept lying me with stupid lies, that none could believe, and than she said to me to stop being a jerk, that her friend didn't want to talk to me for her personal reasons, I had nothing to do with it. Still I can't think all this is true... I ask myself what i have may done (I think i really loved that girl, and i hope she has loved me too). I kept calling her for a month, but i just kept hearing the beeps, till i gave up. September now is near, and i will meet that girl in the school. How should i act??? How should i talk to her??? I don't even know what i keep feeling for her, how I am supposed to know what should i say to her?

[LuvGuru]

Im not understanding you when you said...

After a great time we spent together, and after a long phone conversation, everything changed in my life. She didn't want to talk to me anymore.

what do you mean everything changed in your life? How old are you? How old is she?

From the sound of everything else it looks like you made more than a effort to talk to her and find out what happend. If she did talk to you and explained everything im sure it would make it eaiser. The problem is...we wont always get the answers to the questions we ask.

[Anonyms]

I think i made it look more tragic that it is. Well im 17, shes 17 too. Well the thing is i am getting obsessed about the reason she did such a thing. And I don't know how i am supposed to act when i finally meet her at school :S Talk to her, just ignore her like she did to me, argue with her...

[LuvGuru]

"Never let them see you sweat"....Meaning....Dont go out of you way to see her or avoid her. Treat her like nothing happen, dont show any emotions. It may be killing you inside to talk to her, be her friend\hero...you should resist. If a girl knows she has you wrapped around her finger some(most) of them will exploit that.