Explain to me how he thinks it's okay to discuss our pillow talk with his friends? Help me understand when I say "your hurting me by sharing our conversations with your friends" I'm not explaining it right, that I am talking in circles. Help me to see where by me telling him " I feel I can't talk to you about them" makes him think I don't like his friends. I know men are from mars and women are from venus but really guys - do I need to draw it out?