Okay....
I tried using an online dating site a few months ago. Never thought for a second I would meet someone through it. Beginning in May/June, a girl messaged me and things took off from there. She was a perfect match in terms of interests and morals, etc. I don't think I could ever find a better match. She seemed she was into me as well. We messaged every night or every couple nights. Beginning in August, I got really tired of only talking through e-mail. I gave her my number a couple times saying she could call whenever. I asked if she ever wanted to meet and she said "yeah, I'll meet you at the college campus sometime when I go with my sisters". A month passes and no phone call or text or any talk about meeting. I asked her why she wasn't calling...she said "I'm shy and a little scared" (she had a bad relationship earlier this year). I wrote her a bunch of stuff....and still nothing. Finally, on August 26th, I wrote a long e-mail saying how I couldn't handle it...only talking through e-mail. I left her my number again and told her she was an amazing girl...
She showed a lot of signs that she liked me through her e-mails. She just apparently couldn't press "send" on her phone. I don't know what to do. I told her I was logging off the dating site for the last time. I'm still wishing she will call or text me..or seek me out on facebook.
Does anyone here know something I don't or missed? I felt tortured talking to her at the end. Like I was kept at such a far distance. I could seek her out on facebook I guess....but....I shouldn't have to do that ...and I don't want to...I never got the idea she disliked me or wanted to end things. I told her to always let me know if she felt like we needed to part ways and she never hinted at it.
Help.