i have been spilt up with my girl for 10 weeks now, i am 30 she is 27.. i have phoned her a couple of times over a month ago to try and get her back but she says that she doesnt want to do it.
basically i neglected her in the releationship we were together for 2 n half year and for some reason i never told her i loved her. and also was unsure if i wantred to be with her and she picked up on it and got fed up of the releationship. I have realised since that I DO love her very much and do want to be with her in my future.... after we talked about it last she told me she didnt care and the next day she texted me saying of course she cares but she is trying to get me to hate her? and that she has alot going on in her life...she also told me that she doesnt want to be with anyone else and just wants to be on her own, she downt beleivce me when i told her that i really did love her and want to be with her, she just will not accept it and kept telling me that i was playing mind games..
more recently i found out she didnt pay a load of bills i though this was on purpose i and texted her saying a couple of nasty things and basically giving her what she wanted which was me to not like her and not talk to her again..
i understand that this releationship is probably well and truly over as i have messed up big time with her but if u have any advice that be much appreciated