So I've been dating this guy for a year now, and for the most part everything is pretty good. I would say the biggest issue is that him and his exwife are still so involved in eachothers life. I really just dont understand it, he say they're just friends and I really do belive him, w=but when it comes to anything to do with her he is VERY VERY secretive. I know really just don't get it. They were together for many years, they have a 15 year old son, (who is not his by blood, but is still his son) That was the one time that he knows about her cheating on him, but they still staied together. They were only married for 6 years, and they ended up getting divorcied cause she cheated on him and got pregnant from one of his best friends. He's is a very great guy and even though they weren't together and she did what she did, he was still there for her. I understand that they have some so many years together and feel comfortable with each other but what i don't get is why he can't be honest when it comes to stuff with her. They were sharing a cell phone bill when we got together, but when the plan was sapose to be expired that was it, but that's not how it is. He does have a new phone that is on my plan, but yet he is still paying a bill for his old one, and the only reason that I found out about it is cause I took his truck and it was sitting on the seat. When I asked him about him still paying 2 phone bills, and I thought the reason he went on my plan was cause it was going to be cheaper, all he really had to say it "why are you going through my stuff" I really don't get it, I'm just so hurt but the not be honest and upfront with me. When we first got together, we made I promise to do that, and not have BS, and I know that I have gone by that, I just don't understand why it's not the same with him when it comes to stuff with her. Please I would appriate any feedback anyone has to offer.