I met a guy who I spent a couple of days with in a group environment and got to know him over this time. I felt that we got along well and felt a mutual attraction between us. At the end of the two days he asked for my number and said we should catch up sometime. Later he also friended me on Facebook. How many days would be it appropriate to wait for a call or a date? Also, in this case, should it be his duty to contact me or I to him?
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Thread: How long to expect a date/call?
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05-09-10, 06:44 PM #1
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How long to expect a date/call?
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05-09-10, 06:49 PM #2
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wait for him to txt you, he may use the excuse of 'hey this is my number' or whatever. but if he asked for your number i'd say it's up to him. and all guys are different when it comes to stuff like this. but if he's into you, a few days tops.
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05-09-10, 07:04 PM #3
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I have his number from when he asked for mine.
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05-09-10, 07:19 PM #4
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how long has it been so far? and some guys like when the girl has the confidence to make the 1st move.
They called us a dead generation,
They told us that we wouldn't survive
They left us alone in the maelstrom
As you can see we're all clearly alive.
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05-09-10, 07:21 PM #5
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It's only been a few hours, I'm just asking out of curiosity and to decide if I should do anything now or leave it up to him?
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05-09-10, 07:28 PM #6
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oh ok well i'd say leave it to him for a coupla days, guys can take a while.
They called us a dead generation,
They told us that we wouldn't survive
They left us alone in the maelstrom
As you can see we're all clearly alive.
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05-09-10, 07:29 PM #7
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Thanks. I won't do anything in the meantime then.
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05-09-10, 10:04 PM #8
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Yeah. A couple of days will do.
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06-09-10, 05:29 AM #9
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After a week I'd feel a little 'misled'
Consider the fact he may be busy though, don't contact him unless its been a while since you talked
though it has to be mutual 'chasing' if you get what I mean he can't always chase you and you can't
always chase him
Though I do a lot of the chasing
Might have something to do with the fact we're women and not men
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06-09-10, 05:30 AM #10
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You already sound a little over obsessive just relax okay?It's only been a few hours, I'm just asking out of curiosity and to decide if I should do anything now or leave it up to him?
*p.s just saw your a New zealander rock on, me too, well technically, I moved here ten yrs ago 
Hope you don't live near Christchurch as you've probably seen what happened there =/
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