Alright well this is my first time posting on any love forum! Alright my best friend is a male and gave me advice on this dilema I find myself in and I treasure his point of view but I wanted more male opinions on this one because guys will give it to ya straight.

I was engaged to a man and lived with him for over 4 years. Our relationship was pretty healthy and we got along good. He was a terrific guy, always complimenting me and lifting me up and so good to my children and everyone that met him always commented on how much he adored me. So what happens? I start getting afraid and feeling smothered and broke things off. Even the break up was amicable and we continued to be friends for a time until one day he asked me if there was a chance for us to get back together and when I told him "no" that I just wanted friendship at that time, he told me he couldn't handle being friends with me because he was too in love with me.

Fast forward almost 5 years and I decide to look him up and return somethings he never picked up during the "I'm too in love with you phase and can't talk to you." Anyway I find that he has a pic up of himself wearing the jacket I bought him and no relationship status on his FB so I contact him. We exchange a few emails and he keeps asking me a ton of questions about the children and my family etc and after so many emails he just brings this girl up out of the blue but never states that she is his girlfriend or what. I'm sort of confused here. I mean here he is wanting to meet with me to get his things and continually emailing me with no mention until well in of a girl and doesn't even state if he is in a relationship. So here is my question...

I think he does still love me and I do still love him but now I feel absolutely guilty I have invaded in his life if he has moved on, yet he wants to meet with me to collect his things and I know there is a lot of chemistry between us physically. I really want to do the right thing here above all and I'm kind of lost in what direction to go. I mean after all it was me that did the breaking up. Any thoughts guys? HELP HELP! LOL