Hi.
I'm just curious about something that you ladies may help me with.
I'm 26yo and met a girl 24yo at college from one of the few classes we share (in fact she came sitting by my side while i was all alone) but we are from different courses.
She has short black hair and after a few months between some meaningless conversation I told her that I liked girls with curled blonde hair just like Shakira. Months later she changed her hair to black/blonde straight, I did give some compliments as I see fit, and then I joked a little telling her she should curled it and be all blonde. A few days ago she indeed did it!
The problem is on 2009 year's end we had a party on a disco with all our college friends and we danced briefly together (she ended rubbing her hips on mine's, I believe that's a strong sign that she's attracted) but nothing more happened and I took her home that night.
I didn't give much attention to it (maybe I was a little touched by the drinks) we never talked much, we just go out with our common friends, I'm not interested in her, at least not now. But from that day on she ignores me, passes by and doesn't say hello, I say hello everytime I pass by her and she does talks that way but not much. She seems to avoid me whenever possible, for example if I'm at a table she says hello to the one's on the front table, passes by and goes to the one's on the back table.
She acts like I suddenly caught a plague or something, I never did something that could possibly harm/offend her. And acts in a snob manner, but only with me. I really don't get it, really I don't.
From time to time we arrange a dinner with everyone and now she takes with her what she calls " a new friend" much older than us, about 35yo, it's like she's trying to make me feel jealous from something I don't feel at all.
To me all this is just stupid.
What's your point of view on this? What could be on her troubled mind?
Thanks.