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    How to get a girl to notice you?

    I have been liking this girl for a while and i think she might like me back but im not sure, so can anyone help me. i need to know how to get her to like me, we're freinds and im freinds with her freinds.

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    Confidence is sexy.

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    talk w/ her, be thoughtful, show interest, ask questions, tell her how you feel without being overstepping yourself. make her feel special. show her how interested you are without being a jerk. confidence is helpful, showing shyness is also a helpful. but all depends on the girl too ...

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    yeah the confidence thing works, i usesd to be terrible talking to women, but i started taking a few risks, the last girl i asked out was on one of those speed dating sites at work, so i said to her "stop wasting your time on there and come out with me this friday" sure enough got a date, i never would have had the balls before but it works...

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    Walk up to her and say, "Hi, I'm John. I gotta go somewhere now, but I wanna chat with you. Put your phone number in my contact list so I can call you sometime." And then hand her your phone as if you're expecting it, before she has a chance to say anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doppelgaenger View Post
    Walk up to her and say, "Hi, I'm John. I gotta go somewhere now, but I wanna chat with you. Put your phone number in my contact list so I can call you sometime." And then hand her your phone as if you're expecting it, before she has a chance to say anything.
    too funny. something like that happened to me and i didn't know what to do but to enter my number into ...

    what the

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    It works 90% of the time for me.

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    It's different for everyone. Just going out of your way to talk to her I suppose. Say hello, if you know a common interest, talk to her about that, talk about your mutual friends....just make conversation. Doppelgaenger's idea is good. I'm not surprised it works 90% of the time, you'd contact the person/be willing to talk to them either way; whether it's because you like them or out of interest and curiousity.

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    You don't want a girl to notice you before you approach her.

    It sounds like you're waiting for her to notice you and come up to you - the passive role is generally what females do. You're going to be perceived as weak and lacking confidence if you don't approach her.

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