I’m from Australia and in 2008 came to the UK for a holiday. Met another guy from Aus and was with him for an amazing 2 weeks. We both went back to Aus in separate capital cities and stayed friends. Emailed each other every few weeks just being good friends and keeping in contact with each of our lives. He got together after a bit with his ex girlfriend. They’re still together but I don’t think 100% strong at all.
I finished uni and moved to the UK. My visa is almost up and at 24 years old I’m going to go back to Aus. I have made some friends from his city so could possibly move there and see if anything happens between us? We still email regularly as good friends. Dont think his girlfriend knows about me. I still really really like him. Does he feel the same? Is he totally out of bounds and I shouldn’t want to be with him when he has a girlfriend? Do I move there and see what happens? Do I move back to where I already know and have most of my friends and just try to get over liking him in that way? If he is making effort to stay in good contact and he doesn’t with other people like that, does that mean he likes me or am I just wishing he did? Im confused and need someone outside the situation to tell me what is going on and what I should do. Thanks! =)
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02-10-10, 02:58 AM #1
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02-10-10, 04:31 AM #2
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Do what u think thats gonna benefit you in your life. But... dont assume this and that cuz it may not be what u xpect to happen. In other words.. dont commit when ur not sure. imo good luck
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02-10-10, 04:31 AM #3
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I don't think you should move, unless you're sure that's good for you. You don't know if he likes you more than a friend and you never had a real relationship with him. You could tell him that you were thinking to move in his city, and see what he has to tell about it. You could even ask him if he'd be interested into you - that way at least you'll know if it's either black or white.
It's pretty risky to move out like that, basically for him, without knowing his opinion.
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02-10-10, 04:31 AM #4
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well I dunno what kind of history you guys have together other then emails, but that is NO reason to move somewhere, off a whim that he might like you.... especially if he has a girlfriend. I would move where is best for YOU, and if the guy decides one day to break up with his girl and start to pursue a relationship with you, then go for it. But I think moving to where he is to try to make things work when you really dont know how he feels and he has a GF is a bad idea waiting to happen. Just my .02
