A girl that I have been through EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING! with has recently been kicked out of her house and doesn't have a car or anything anymore.
We dated and everything but after it all we got in a fight and ended in bad terms. And I would think by now it has passed over.
So I just wanted to say to her..."We ended up in bad terms but I just wanted to let you know that if you ever need help with something, I would be glad to help you"...something along the lines of that
Should I do it?
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02-10-10, 06:46 AM #1
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I want to be able to help but....
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02-10-10, 06:49 AM #2
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I mean how "bad of terms" do you mean? Is she not speaking to you at all? Who caused the break up?
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02-10-10, 06:55 AM #3
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It wasn't really bad terms, when we got into the argument I tried to keep it calm and rational.
Originally Posted by justcheckin
We were just friends then and she thought i was too boring to hang out with, I guess she didn't want to get too emotionally attached or something.
And on new years eve she hugged me and asked if I missed her.
So I think by now after probably some 3yrs we got over it and just don't talk or anything.
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02-10-10, 07:02 AM #4
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so 3 years later she is kicked out of her house and you guys haven't talked at all?
It would be nice for her to have some emotional support... but It will probably be somebody more recent to her. Does she have a bf currently or is she "talking" to any guys?
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02-10-10, 07:04 AM #5
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Well she broke up with her next really big boyfriend who really liked each other but know she is staying at some guys house she works with but there is a possibility they have some feelings for each other Originally Posted by justcheckin
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02-10-10, 07:12 AM #6
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ehhhhhhhh stay away from her man. She seems to have moved on from you (no offense) and you contacting her will probably just annoy her or something. Once a girl moves on (we are talking 3 years here) she pretty much MOVES ON. Im sure you love her/like her alot, but some times you just cant control the world. Its not ur fault something happen to her, but it sounds like your best bet is to just let her figure it out on her own with whatever guy she is currently seeing.
how do you know she is kicked out and no car? did she come to you for advice?
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02-10-10, 07:15 AM #7
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A friend of mine who is good friends with her told me. Originally Posted by justcheckin
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02-10-10, 07:20 AM #8
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If your doing it for just being a nice guy, sure.. but if this is your penis talking, even for just a second, your just gonna to make a lot of trouble for yourself.. not worth it.
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02-10-10, 07:22 AM #9
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Its just for being nice and cause after all we've been through I don't want to see her do bad. I'm not in it for the sex Originally Posted by all alone
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02-10-10, 07:23 AM #10
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^^^ I agree, if it is a "glimmer of hope" in your eyes to win her back or something, you gotta abort that idea out of your head immediately. If she didn't even come to you, and you haven't talked in 3 years.... she might even find it kinda strange that you still care that much. Just saying. I would just let it be man. You cant live in the past
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02-10-10, 07:23 AM #11
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how much did you guys "go through" together in the first place? If she says you were boring.... I dunno how much stuff you could of possibly done together... Originally Posted by R0aDRuNN3R5
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02-10-10, 07:28 AM #12
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We were really good friends, dated and didn't feel right so we were friends again but it got awkward and we ended up getting in a fight. Then we became good friends alot and I would always sleep over her brothers I would go into her room in the night and we slept together. I started getting boring b/c after all we went through I got nervous I would screw it up again Originally Posted by justcheckin
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02-10-10, 08:45 AM #13
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well if you are sincere, just make it a quick "i know we havent talked, but I just want you to know that if you ever need anythign I would like to help you" or something and leave it at that. Dont say any more, or any less. Just make it a quick "I am here if you need me, that is all"
