I'm 21 and in college, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've talked to many girls, and even become close friends with several, but it seems like every time I get close enough to develop feelings for one of them, they always tell me they are just interested in being friends. Even in high school this happened to me, but it's gotten even worse now that I'm in college. I'm worried that every girl I end up getting close to will tell me that she just doesn't see me that way.I know not every girl is going to want to date me, but can't help but think I should have found one by now.
I'm naturally a nice guy, polite and a good listener (I've been told this, I'm not just giving my opinion of myself), so girls have no problem being friends with me, it just seems like I can never find anyone who wants to be something more.
The reason why I'm asking is that I recently met another girl who I've started to take a liking to. But I'm worried that I'm just getting myself into another round of heartache because the same thing will happen as it always has.
What am I doing wrong that makes all these girls just think of me as a friend?