I am 39 and have been exclusively dating a 29 yr old for 3 years. The relationship is passionate and fun and fantastic - EXCEPT for my concern about our future. He knows I want to get married and has told me he doesn't believe in marriage. He also won't move closer to me cause it would make his commute to work longer, even though I have a child in school close to my place. It seems like if he is REALLY into me and loves me like he claims to, he would make some effort to move forward in this relationship. Is it the age difference keeping him from taking the leap? Or am I just not the one?