Originally Posted by
cheeky&sexy
Ok so thank you for all the replies. Before i respond to each specific one i have an update that as made me feel a bit better. He started a conversation with me on facebook chat last nite and explained that he has been really sick this past week. Some type of fever that he has had blood tests for and waiting on the results to know whats wrong, and he just made it sound really bad. I did know he has actually been sick for 3 weeks now, because the last time we made plans he said he was sick so couldnt. But for the most part, during the first 2 weeks he was sick, he was still basically living his normal life and still partying the second weekend. So i kind of overlooked the fact that he was sick and thought he just didnt want to see me, especially since he stopped calling and texting. But i guess he wouldnt want to get me sick and kissing a girl is different, i wouldnt want to get sick either. Also, maybe he realised its not fair to talk to me so much when his not seeing me so he has given me some freedom until he is better? But yeah he basically came online, explained his situation said this past week he had gotten really bad, then said he had to go to bed. He told me he was recovering now though and feeling much better than he was. But then he said something that bothered me.. he should be completely fine in about a month. so i feel like he is letting me know maybe thats when he will be fine to hang out? I find it hard to believe his recovery period is going to take longer than the amount of time he was sick, and he doesnt even have answers to exactly what the virus is that he has yet. So now his put me in this position where his basically telling me to wait an additional month at least, after already waiting 6 weeks. I guess we will just talk a bit here and there over the next month and when his better hopefully he will want to catch up. Im going to keep my options open to other guys, and i guess im glad he isnt trying to close me off to seeing other guys during this time, like he did in the beginning even a month after we saw each other last.