Okay. I have been seeing this girl for roughly 4 months now. I'm 25, she's 22. It started as just casually hooking up, until we realized that we both liked each other. We have both confessed that we are into each other more than friends with benefits, but she has also confessed that she doesn't want a relationship. I have realized, based on her history, that she may be somewhat of a commitment-phobe. So, I'm pretty good at giving her space and letting her have her independence, which I am actually really cool with as I have never found clingy, or needy girls very attractive. I just hate knowing that she doesn't want a relationship. It seems as though my two options are: a) give up on, basically, an amazing girl, or b) keep at this hoping she changes her mind with the potential of consistently being mildly stressed out and suddenly dropped at anytime.
At the moment, this "friendship" thing is at a point where I usually spend one to two nights at her place a week, she puts on a sad face if I don't kiss her and hug her before I leave, she consistently wants cuddling, we joke, go for dinner, and are altogether reasonably playful and enjoy each other.....but she doesn't want a relationship. So, any advice? Give up? Keep at it? Anybody been in this situation before? How'd it turn out?