Man, I thought me and her are together, but I think this dream may of ruined it...

[DiGiacobbe]

Please, I need a girl's perspective on this..

Ok, me and this girl started talking like 3 years ago, it was going good, but I attend to screw myself over with drugs and she ended up finding someone else. They lasted for about a year and a half and they broke up about a couple months ago and he ended up braking her heart, I figured he would. But I kept on having dreams about her and I had a very special dream about her lately with her crying very hard, and we were also dating (which was the first time dreaming we were dating) but when she was crying, I saw a lot of dark red, and I have read that could mean deep love, and possibly going to have a relationship soon. Well, we talked tonight, through IMing and she just told me how he broke her heart and was crying a lot last week (which the dream was on friday). I couldnt help myself, I gave in and I told her about the dream (besides the fact we were dating and the color, I only told her I saw her crying and I have felt it in the morning, nothing more, and I did feel her emotions the next morning, which is really weird) Now my question is, when we were talking, she was asking about my dream, I try to explain to her what it was and how it felt to me, she then later on replied 'gotta go, ttyl, night' and signed off not getting me a chance to say good night. She can be a mystery, trying to have me catch her, that sorta thing, but I feel this time I may of scared her, oh and she also had to go to school in the morning and it was like 1 in the morning.

Did I scare her??? If so, is there any way to work around it? I mean she used to dream about me, the way I'm dreaming about her now, and she is really interested in dreams. I really do like this girl, I need help if I did something wrong, from a girl's perceptive please!

Thanks!

[YouAreBeautiful]

I think you probably did scare her. The only way to fix it would be to take back what you said. Or maybe tell her you just wanted to see her reaction. If she thinks you were very serious in saying this I can see how she would be scared away. Especially if you weren't already in a relationship with you. Do you know how she felt about you before the incident?

[SapphireBerry]

Affirmative. you scared her
your dreams and sub conciuous mind is not her business
I don't tell the guy keeping distance from me that last night I dreamt he loved me.
You did kinda blow your chance 3 years ago, and of course she's gonna go through
heartbreak if she broke up with her BF of a year and a half, guys/girls they always
break each others hearts its how the world works, you shouldn't let her use you to
get over this guy though, look out for that, you scared her away, my mistake i always
make after scaring a guy is I start to apologise alot and send them messages telling
them I'm sorry i went wrong, just STOP now, leave her, let her come to you again and
just say sorry after a few minutes of casual talk, 'sorry about what I told you i must have
come off a little too much there'.

Sapphire x