This is my second time posting about this issue because it just keeps getting more complicated to me. The beginning of this story is in the long post you can find on the 11th page of this forum titled "A Little Hurt and a Lot Confused. Help Please" it won't let me post a link to it because I don't have 15 posts yet.

The second part is as follows:

About two days after that post I got a text from her. She was at work and said that she really needed a hug. I don't live more than 10 minutes away from her job and so I went out there and was waiting by her car when she got off at 10:30pm. At this point I was thinking we were just friends and so I wasn't going to do anything but give her a hug and give her a ring that she left at the bar when she came to see me play. The waiter found it and gave it back to me the next week. Anyway I gave her a hug and gave her back the ring and she asked if we could sit down and hang out for a few minutes. That was cool with me so we went over to the curb and sat down. She promptly grabbed my hand and put my arm around her. She then kissed me and we ended up making out there on the spot.

The next day when I woke up there was a text on my phone from her saying that she was still worried about our friendship. She kept thinking, "I really don't want to lose him" over and over so I texted her back and told her how I was feeling. I mentioned that the night before she had made all the moves. In the end I respected her wish to just be friends. The next day she invited me over to her house to hang out before my weekly bar performance. I went over again thinking we are just friends and that's all we are. She was really tired and so we had a cd playing and she was laying in the bed. She asked me to join her so I went and laid down next to her. Before I knew it she had rolled over on to me and we were kinda cuddling there. So obviously when I left her house I was even more confused but still determined to keep her wish and be friends.

The next time I saw her was two weeks later (we are both really busy at different times) this past Wednesday. She came with me to the bar to see me play because she likes my band. Before the show though she grabbed my hand and asked me to kiss her. And I'm going to be honest with you, I really do care about her and I feel like it goes deeper than just a friend so I did. Nothing major, just a little kiss. During the performance she blew me a kiss though and I returned it. Then when I dropped her off at her house she invited me in and we ended up again on her couch making out. We didn't do anything else but still we were on her couch kissing for 15 minutes or so before we both had to go to bed so we could get up for our respective jobs the next day so I left.

Here's my question. What are we doing here? I'm not real sure how to approach the topic with her but every time we get together she is all over me. And it's her making all the advances. I really like her and I'm pretty sure she really likes me (why else would she be all over me all the time) but she has said she just wants to be friends. It just doesn't make any since to me at all. Help!!