Hi,
Me mid forties - sadly just about divorced. Two years on, feeling like I want to find love again.
There's someone I really like at work but I'm scared about letting her know.
I think she is separated but not completely sure (TBC). I don't work directly with her but I know her to say hello to.
Just wonder how on earth to find out (a) if she is free and
(b) how could I let her know I like her whilst maintaining a good working relationship. Of course it could be awful if she knocked me back (it might make me feel uncomfortable at work).
I would hope she is nice enough to be gentle in letting me down if not interested.
I feel like I have been through so much recently with my divorce and the rejection of my wife that my confidence is shot.
Not dated for twenty years but I also feel life is too short and nothing ventured...nothing gained.
Oh yes, I think she has a facebook profile. Would that be a good way to get chatting with her maybe? Advice welcomed.