Ok, so I'm living on a university campus for the first time this semester. I am really liking it here in almost every way except there are women all over and I can't seem to get any of them to go on dates or anything . I am 21, I'm in shape, Smart, I work hard (16 credit hours + a part time job.) I get good grades and I think I look good atm but I probably could use a hair cut. I can't post an image of myself or I would I'm going to try to put it on my profile. I'm nice nearly all the time (hold open doors, help people pick up dropped stuff, offer to carry things.ect)
I don't think I have a weird or squeaky voice or anything. I get invited to parties and occasionally go. I try to get involved in student events when I can. I even talk to strangers when I feel like it. (I know I have two big problems, my only day with free time is Tuesday so I can't really join any student organizations. I'm also terrible at flirting and I often miss the signals women give and only get the very blatant ones like accidentally dropping their phone number on my lap (one time) or recently on an online dating website a girl kept telling me she was bored and hungry.
When I'm actually on a date I guess I'm not supposed to pay for everything? (I was always told by my Mom and Dad that the man is supposed to pay.) I also have a horrible time of guessing when a girl wants to be kissed and they often get frustrated and give up on me. I seem to be a full blown retard when it comes to women. (I also don't think the problem is my voice or charisma because I'm a tele-fund caller for my part time job and I'm doing very well at it.)
Any idea's what I'm doing wrong?