Article: What Women Need to know: The Man's Point of View

[Jessicalena]

Great! It helps me to understand him better.

[doesntcompute]

* Don't expect him to be a mind reader.

* Don't expect him to agree with every thing you say.

* Do tell him exactly what he has done wrong and how to avoid it in the future.

* Don't criticize him about his clothes or hair, if we did that to you, we will would never the hear the end of it

* Don't ask him about past girlfriends, because the honest truth is you might not like what you hear.

* Don't expect him to pay for everything, pay your share as well.

[Ask Kitty]

I don't understand why so many guys think all girls are is emotional..We have other traits to.

[Elan]

Ppl,this is some spam. Check to what you respond before you do that...

may be you are right.as the lover,both of the two should respect each other in daily life.

[Elan]

I think there are some special elements to consider in order to take care of your love.. all in "how to be good to your woman" I reccomend this:

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support you !!

[Bon24]

I've been with my guy for a yr and before I got with him I said I wld never be a nagging gf or anything but Ian sometimes and honestly he has changed so much he was such a romantic in the beginning and now all he wants to do is hang with his friends and shit. No wonder I nag him. I'm sorry but I can say that he's the most important thing to me nd yeh I love my friends but I always make time for him and I think I'm a great gf to him. Why is it that when guys change that they get annoyed at there gfs when we bring it up.

[Tina33]

Very informative, I learned alot from this. But I doubt I wil ever learn enough to learn how a male mind works. Perhaps one day

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[sapphire109]

Sound advice

[tulipcia]

hi m new here and m trying to send my message on the wall or blog its not working, i just want to talk with a male and discuss with him abt my story i had though i end it now but m still lost cause i don tknow why that happend....well am a female am 28 i met a guy on the net from facebook and been 3 weeks talking w each other on th ephone nd on the net everything was fine and we even had web cam chat he lives far from me in other country his lebanese living in saudi and i live in lebanon he decided to come to lebanon to see me for 3 days...the 1st day he was so hyper nd so happy joking nd saying nice words to me same as me i was happy with him nd feel comfortable...2nd day he was like little serious and not in mood i was all the time beside him and supporting him in issues he was facing for his career ... i asked him would u like to meet my parents he was like yeah sure thats y i came to see u nd ur fam ...all the way to home he was sleeping in the car nd not talking as he doest care to know how to reach my house the (direction)..once we get home he sat w mom nd dad was lughing nd talking suddenly he had a phone once he closed said he has to go cuz his mom is traveling nd he wants to see her in half n hour so he went i was like surpsired how he din tknow that his mom is traveling and what a phone he had this in a sudden to leave...anyway afternoon i met him back again he was happy cuz he met an old frnd nd he wants him to work with him in good salary in saudi so he was so happy...i asked him y u dint tell me abt ur mom that shes traveling u left that quick ...said he dint know abt it...felt like there is smthin hidden..at night we went to the mountain sitting in the car we start kissing and flirting...then he had a call ...he dint answer in the car ..he went out and talked for 15 mins in a madness voice...i dint ask him abt the call ....3rd day we were planing to have lunch together he coundt he had a dentist so i changed the plan for a romantic dinner he cancled it nd said i wana sit with my dad i cant go out with u i was mad here...cuz next day morning hes traveling back though he came to see me ...nd we barely sat and talk or see each other....i dint complain when he said he wana sit w his dad.....next day morning i went to say good bye and he travelled...the day he reached to saudi he dint call me not ask abt me he use to say show online i miss u i wana talk w u and see u ....once he got back to saudi till now had one call no msgs no chat....i called him yst asked y said i so busy i cant call u anytime....and at night i sent him msg saying i feel that u dint like me ..seems i wasnt ur type theres nothing from you and your not asking abt me like b4 ...even when u were busy u use to ask but once u got back..its like ur ignoring my msgs ..and he dint answer been day and a half not asking abt me nor replied my last msg.....i know i talked a lot but i feel m dissapointed cuz i had hope with this guy and we planed our future on the net b4 he comes to lebanon and see me...felt everything i planed w him was just a dream and the truth is he wanted to play maybe ....i don tknow btw he asked me 3 times when he was in lebanon to go to his house me and him alone i was refusing felt he want to make love with me on the bed but i refused that felt its not the time now....maybe he was planing to have sex w me and when i refused he lossed hope with me i don tknow...may anyone of you MALES tell me if i did smthin wrong or what though i did all my best to keep him happy but he wasnt making me happy specially now m lost hes not answering my msgs...thank you

[johnbeckettson]

At the bottom of it all, I think it's just communication. This article has some simple but nice ideas:

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[cedricleo]

Hers's the 8th thing women should know also: Don't let a man believe you are interested in him and string him along to tell him you just want to be friends! heartbreaking, hurtful and humiliating

if a woman tell me that she wants us to be friends, then it's NEXT. by all means do not do that. any man that appreciates himself will just leave and never look back

[pink princess]

Don't let a man believe you are interested in him and string him along to tell him you just want to be friends and thats cool

[trouble_sleepin]

Hmm.. good to know. I have to say though, the dont's are pretty hard to follow. Sometimes, it's just in our nature. I've definitely learned something here though. =)

[Jonathanese]

I would like to add something that I keep emphasizing. Guys come up with pickup lines and confidence boosters to appeal to women more. The guy playing "hard to get", or acting aloof or "I don't care if you like me or not" to draw women in.

It works for quick flings or whatever, and it's not too hard in large social gatherings. But when a man really feels something special for a woman, usually after being friends or knowing you a while. he will not have the same confidence or "free from judgement" attitude around you. women may be repulsed by the apparently less "studley" attitude, but those are the actual gems. If you want a short relationship that is rather meaningless, by all means, go for the "Macho Dude".

Just keep in mind, no matter how tough he is or how big his ego may be, or how emotionally aloof he may be, if he really cares about you on a deep level, he forgets it all and softens up for you, and only you. You reject a guy like that, and even if he dates other women, he won't feel much for them, because it's you who's on his mind. You are what he's been looking for, and he wants a good MUTUAL relationship off of that feeling.

I just see a lot of girls who want a committed relationship and can't find one, when it's not that men are inherently evil, it's more like you just aren't looking at the right ones. It's like men only looking for models or porn stars. It may be exaggeratedly "attractive", but it is not the basis of a good relationship.

[shiro]

I would like to add something that I keep emphasizing. Guys come up with pickup lines and confidence boosters to appeal to women more. The guy playing "hard to get", or acting aloof or "I don't care if you like me or not" to draw women in.

It works for quick flings or whatever, and it's not too hard in large social gatherings. But when a man really feels something special for a woman, usually after being friends or knowing you a while. he will not have the same confidence or "free from judgement" attitude around you. women may be repulsed by the apparently less "studley" attitude, but those are the actual gems. If you want a short relationship that is rather meaningless, by all means, go for the "Macho Dude".

Just keep in mind, no matter how tough he is or how big his ego may be, or how emotionally aloof he may be, if he really cares about you on a deep level, he forgets it all and softens up for you, and only you. You reject a guy like that, and even if he dates other women, he won't feel much for them, because it's you who's on his mind. You are what he's been looking for, and he wants a good MUTUAL relationship off of that feeling.

I just see a lot of girls who want a committed relationship and can't find one, when it's not that men are inherently evil, it's more like you just aren't looking at the right ones. It's like men only looking for models or porn stars. It may be exaggeratedly "attractive", but it is not the basis of a good relationship.

I disagree with you on 2 points which you said. First you you saud that macho guys can have deep feelings for a girl! This isn't true that they soften up and only think about the girl. Macho guys stay Macho guys. They don't want such deep thoughts.
The second thing I don't agree with you is that you say men are looking for models or pornstar. If this is the case then I would an exception, I believe what defines a girl as pretty can only be seen through my own eyes. (if you get what I mean)