I'm a virgin, never had any kind of oral sex and just started making out in the past year. So...it's taken me a while to get to this point. I've always been of the mindset that any kind of sex should be safe, but I'm nervous about asking my guy to put on a condom before giving him oral sex. He's a lot more experienced than I am, and I'm afraid that he'll think I'm being naive about things. It's not that I don't trust him or think he's lying to me about having an STD or is with other girls, I just kind of want to stick to my guns. I also don't want to risk getting an STD if he does lie to me down the line...and would like to kind of establish the condom use from the beginning.
Am I being smart about this, or are my trust issues acting up? How would you guys respond in a situation like this?
And what about him giving me oral sex? I'm not concerned about him getting anything from me but can I get something from him?