Flirt by text - advice needed

[Totalrebuild]

Hi

Over the past few months, due to my wife and I having stressful jobs etc. The spark has fizzled out of our love life.

We keep in touch by text a lot, I would like to spice things up by sending my wife seductive/ saucy/ flirty etc SMS text messages.

I was hoping that I could have some female advice on what to say in these texts. As I have no idea what a woman likes to hear in a seductive text, I have no idea how to turn someone on by text

Sooo... can any of you girls give me some examples of the right things to text that would get a female feeling saucy ?

Please help

Thanks

[Totalrebuild]

Anyone ???

[vashti]

flirting is usually a cooperative, interactive effort, so it would be hard to tell you a one-liner that works.

[Totalrebuild]

Vashti, I understand that the text flirting is a 2 way effort. I guess I am looking for advice on how to initiate this, and the kind of things to say that would come accross as suggestive / saucy etc

My fear is that me being a guy, would wade in there waaay too graphic etc As us guys usually do !

[vashti]

Well, she's your wife. You can get away with a bit more, I would think.

I suppose you could start off by complimenting her about something you find sexy. Or telling her you were just thinking about the time you two did something naughty.

[Totalrebuild]

Well, she's your wife. You can get away with a bit more, I would think.

I suppose you could start off by complimenting her about something you find sexy. Or telling her you were just thinking about the time you two did something naughty.

Is that something that would stir up the libido in a female ? For instance, if I said "mmm I am thinking about that time when we were ------- and we did ------"

Thanks

[vashti]

It depends on whether or not there are other issues with regards to your sex life. If she is turned off by you for some reason, flirty text messages probably won't help. If she still digs you, then yes, I think she would probably enjoy being reminded of something steamy.

BTW - if you remind her of something you have already done, don't forget to mention how hot you think she was when she _________. Don't be overtly vulgar, though. You don't even have to make it about sex. the idea is to make her feel like she possesses some special quality that you crave, and that you want to give her something equivalent.

[Totalrebuild]

Thats exactly the advice I need also Thanks

Can you give me any examples of texts you may have been sent that stirred up your libido ?

Don't be overtly vulgar, though. You don't even have to make it about sex. the idea is to make her feel like she possesses some special quality that you crave, and that you want to give her something equivalent.

[vashti]

Can you give me any examples of texts you may have been sent that stirred up your libido ?

Hah! Nope, sorry. They are private!

You can become increasingly sexual if your initial attempts seem to be welcomed, though.

[Totalrebuild]

I guess I just dont feel confident putting thoughts into words. I dont think I have the knack for it

[Applesauce]

lol, when will guys learn to stop asking girls for advice on girls? Here is what you can text her to spice things up:

- tell her the sex last night was amazing
- say you're looking forward to tonight bc you have a surprise planned
- tell her you're going to make her feel like a woman
- remind her that she meets your needs and you love that about her
- say you were thinking of the sex you had and it got you all worked up

[vashti]

But neo... he implied they aren't having sex so much!

[Applesauce]

I guess I just dont feel confident putting thoughts into words. I dont think I have the knack for it

If you need help, I can tell you exactly what to say until you get more confident

[Applesauce]

But neo... he implied they aren't having sex so much!

So? They are still having sex, which doesn't change my advice

[Totalrebuild]

Applesauce I would be grateful if you could give me advice on what to say

Just to clarify, the sex is about once per week. Thats why I'm trying to create daily sexual feeling, so that when we come home we are horny for each other