What Do Girls Think???

[mattbrad5000]

I went out with this girl a few times, and after the previous date she said she would meet up again, she suggested the weekend. I agreed, but then she never said anything about it until i texted her to make sure it was still on, and she said that she would have to cancel because she was having to work. She said that she would promise to meet me during the week, but i felt it was a hollow promise, and it never happened. The texting and contact on Skype has stopped since apart from the occasional short convo

I remember that she said to me the week before that she has family problems and things like that.. And shes also going away over christmas for 2 weeks, and then in January she is going away for a few months. Is it possible that she has gone off me (i cant think how since she started a conversation recently - and always goes offline on Skype after me!), or maybe just doesnt want to get involved? But why say that she will meet me in the first place if she didn't like me??? She was even saying things like (i enjoy being with you, and that she never finds me annoying)

Should i ignore her, start a conversation, or even leave her until shes back from all those holidays and then ask to meet up again?

I honestly cannot think that ive said anything wrong, i know i havent. But maybe this ignoring me is a way of getting my attention/disinterest/unwillingness to get involved - im not sure which!!! But whats certain is that im crazy for her.. but ive not really had that much of a chance to show it!!

[xxazurexx]

Happens all the time. Some dates just don't turn into relationships.. People see each other a few times and then it just fizzles out and for whatever reason. Been there myself once or twice - dated some guy, saw him a few times and the interest just waned and there was no desire to want to pursue it further. Sometimes you just find you aren't 'that' compatible, or I tend to lose interest quickly and if the guy isn't showing enough in me - I ain't one for wasting my time on something I think is headed nowhere.

Have you been showing enough interest in her? Sometimes females won't pursue a guy, they like the guy to do most of the pursuing and particularly in the early days. If you aren't showing a lot of interest and she's sitting back waiting of you showing an interest, then yeah, things will come to a halt.

Or there's a possiility she doesn't want to get involved and because she is going away for a few months.

[mattbrad5000]

True, but on the first date, we were walking around together, arms around eachother and flirting a lot, but i didnt want to do anything on the first date because the last few times ive done that it was put down to "the moment" and didnt last! I am showing interest in her. I sent her a text last weekend saying if she wants to meet up again then let me know, but im unsure as to what to make of her silence.. But about 10 days ago she talked to me on facebook chat. Now why would she do that if she wasnt interested??? Oh and should i start a conversation on Skype or wait for her to talk to me?

[xxazurexx]

How old are you both?

If you want to give it one last shot, then go ahead. Start up a convo, ask her again and if she'd like to go out sometime and if she fails to show any enthusiasm and ignores you, then I'm afraid you are gonna have to let this one go.

[mattbrad5000]

Okidoke, thats good advice thanks!