boyyyys i need your help

[hsmit31]

okay im sick of hearing the girls side of this. my boyfriend and i have been together a year in jan... we live together, and love each other alot i mean i thought so not sure anymore. we have been through alot of stuff together and im willing to spend the rest of my life with him if he is.. BUUUUT here is my dilemma i found he emailing girls over horneymatches.com trying to meet up with them. he promised he would stop and didnt intend to act on it but once again today i found more and alot more of girls from the town we live in and some for back home i found 129 of these over the course of the last couple months. i ffreaked out and broke up with him (not legit yet we still live together) he deleted the profile and apologized and begged for my forgivenss, said i didnt deserve him and to leave him already cause he knew i was gonna blah blah blah ...basically im just trying to see what i shoudl do if i should give up on the relationship because obivously he cant be trusted because he knew what he was doing. or i should forgive and move on because i love him and he is my everything but just stupid as hell. please help me see past the bullshit and give some advice on what i should do with this situation.
and just a couple side pointers
-im always trying to have sex he always turns me down ...i have a very high sex drive... im a sexual being :]
-he lives 9 states away from his family to live with me while i go to college
-we have a dog together and have supposely commited our lives together
-and i really am a good person i treat him well give him everything. my priority is our relationship.
im good looking and easily could be running around with people or break up with him and find someone new but i cant because i love him. and this hurts so bad to know he did this.
please help me

[WICKED THOUGHTS]

Well, the guy did delete the account.. ya? Do u know if he acted on dis obsession yet? Did u ask him why he duz it when ur attractive and very sexual? Imo u guys should work it out... its a 50/50 chance. But, still try to make things better.... and if it dont workout? Then.. u move on and atleast know u both tried. Ya.

[SlurJur]

You obviously have a lot invested in this relationship. You both care for eachother, and you have thought about a future together. What he's doing would be enough to drive me away, (honestly sounds like a sex addict, but why won't he sleep with you when you want?) but if he is willing to change, and prove to you that he can change, then I would honestly give it another shot. If he fails again, then it is over and you know you gave it the best shot possible. What's meant to be will happen... if you are willing, just ride it out and hope for the best. But... I would think of it as "probation." He told you he would stop, he didn't, and now this is his last shot at being with you.

Hope this helps. Good luck.

Also, I'm not a guy... but hopefully this isn't the typical "girl answer" you're getting somewhere else. Just honesty from the approach I would choose.

[vashti]

I am always suspicious of posts that include the website address for another forum.

[hsmit31]

thanks so much this is my plan but i swear this boy ****s with my heart again im so done lol

[xxazurexx]

I am always suspicious of posts that include the website address for another forum.

Exactly!

Stick ya forum where the sun don't shine OP....we are happy here

And if youi get tired of hearing a female point of view, when some of us females are EXPERIENCED enough to know how men tick, then I figure it's because you don't like to hear some home truths.

Your boyfriend is looking to cheat and will end up cheating on you - if he hasn't already!