Hey guys, I'm in need of some serious advice.
I've been with my girlfriend for just about two months, and I have fairly strong feelings for her. I had held back from saying it myself in order to test her true emotions, and sure enough, a few days ago she told me that she loved me, to which I responded that I loved her too.
The problem, however, is that I have had a feeling throughout our entire relationship that she merely likes anyone who shows her any kind of affection. My girlfriend is very attractive even by objective standards, and thus I do not mean to say that she hooks up with anyone who comes onto her, but rather that she quickly "loves" anyone who she is initially attracted to and enters a relationship with.
This issue has appeared since the onset, since starting with just shortly after meeting my GF as I learned about her most recent boyfriend who was an absolute asshole as he didn't want to be seen with her in public, yet she still stayed with him for weeks while he used her for sexual purposes. My GF said that she loved him, even though she realized her mistake after-the-fact.
Tonight, my worst fears were confirmed as my girlfriend told me that she had said to all of her boyfriends that she had loved them, and that none had returned the favor.
Now, we're only in college, and thus my girlfriend has only been in five or six relationships, but none of them have been truly serious, with most being trivial flings, as evidenced by one "boyfriend" being gay, another a douche, and another merely her breakfast buddy.
The issue I'm having is that I can't accept that my girlfriend "loves" me considering that she has told each and every other boy who she has been in a relationship with that she loved them. Furthermore, none of these guys were even remotely deserving of being "loved" by her.
My girlfriend continually tells me that she has changed and that she genuinely has stronger feelings for me than anyone else, and cried hysterically for hours when I hinted that I was done with her, but how am I supposed to feel unique or truly loved if my girlfriend just loves everyone who shows her any kind of mutual attraction?
I blew up on my girl tonight, and she couldn't adequately explain her feelings to my satisfaction. We'll probably hash things out more tomorrow, but what should I do from here? My gut reaction is to end the relationship for someone who truly loves me for me as I myself have been in numerous relationships wherein I've liked the person's sense of humor or sexual abilities, but never even contemplated the idea of loving them, whereas my current girlfriend has declared her love for every single boyfriend, making me feel like just another guy, and that she just grows attached.
Help, please?