Time for me to Let Go?? All input appreciated!

[UnstableTimes]

I have been in a relationship with my gf for almost 3 years now. I've known this other girl named Brittany for a little longer than I've known my girlfriend. I used to be in a relationship with Brittany in high school, and things ended ugly because she left me for my best friend at the time....Anyway I am a Junior in college now, and over the last few months, me and Brittany have developed a great friendship. However, the feelings I used to have for her in high school recently came rushing back at a very rapid pace. My girlfriend noticed the attention I started giving Brittany and has become very insecure/untrusting of Brittany. About 3 days ago, I finally told Brittany that we shouldn't speak much anymore because it's hurting the relationship with my own girlfriend of 3 years....

Basically, It's been only a few days since I've told Britt we shouldn't talk. We haven't spoke since. I keep having mixed thoughts of whether I should have done that to my friendship with Brittany? The feelings for Brittany still haven't dissapeared yet. Am I supposed to wait till those feelings dissapear before making contact again? Should I never contact her again while I am with my girlfriend? Did I do something wrong in haulting contact? I feel so lost and confused. Any advice, or thoughts from anyone would be great.

[Steel-Heart]

Well, first you need to ask yourself if you really want to be with your current girlfriend. I mean... is everything great between you two?

To me it seems as you are looking for something else or at least keep your doors open, even though you are in a relationship.

My advice to you is to cut any contact with Britt. Don't forget she let you go a while back so she could get together with some other guy.

I would never let a girl back in after she rejected me, especially for someone else.

I believe that you made a right decision by breaking up the contact with Britt. It only has been a few days and I'm pretty sure if she wanted to make a contact again, you would let her. Why? Because you are weak!

Don't let her destroy your current relationship, she had a chance... now you shut her down...for good.

After you do this, you need to go back to the question #1 that I posted. I know when I am in a relationship with someone that I truly care about, no other girls even have a chance. So if you do care about the girl you are with right now, you should apologize to her for this nonsense and never speak to Britt again.

This is what I think!

Take care and good luck!

-Steel Heart

[girl68]

I agree chances are these feelings are a result of your dissatisfaction with your gf. So figure out WHY. What's missing? Why is Brittany so intriguing? Are you actually happy with your gf?

I don't think you think Brittany is all that wonderful I think ANY girl who's nice and sweet would cause these feelings. Therefore I'm asking why you might have room for extra feelings for other girls.

[IncognitoSir]

I agree chances are these feelings are a result of your dissatisfaction with your gf. So figure out WHY. What's missing? Why is Brittany so intriguing? Are you actually happy with your gf?

I don't think you think Brittany is all that wonderful I think ANY girl who's nice and sweet would cause these feelings. Therefore I'm asking why you might have room for extra feelings for other girls.

AND, why the hell would you be interested in a girl who left you for you best friend. Whatever happens, please don't get into a relationship with brittany.

[girl68]

^ Oh yeah agreed. You don't want Brittany you just don't want you gf.

[Boisdevie]

And you can't really go back to a girl with a name like that, can you?