Help needed!

[Candoit]

So I started liking this girl around the end of may and I started talking with her. I always complimented her and even told her that I liked her once. She took it well and it become obvious that she was starting to get interested in me. She would always smile and laugh at my jokes and say hi anytime we walked by each other.

However, when the school year ended she went on vacation with a few of her friends. On that day I was at my friends house and ironically forgot to turn my facebook off when I went to get pizza. He went on my facebook and asked her out like an idiot. Of course she said no probably because 1.) it was on facebook or 2.) she was with a whole bunch of her friends whom she always listens to and they probably did something. After wards I tried to get over her and look for other lucky women. Since this was the first time I had been rejected I was really out of it. My friend took advantage of that and de-friended her from my facebook, which at the moment I did not care about.

Lately, I have started growing an interest in her again. The thing is whenever we run into each other now it becomes a moment where she either gets: 1.) really loud and starts talking to her friends around me or some teacher but stays really close to where i am, 2.) freezes, 3.) gets a bit red, 4.) smiles, 5.) looks at me in a "sort of confused way". Other then that, when she's with some of her friends they will start teasing her or doing random stuff. For example, one day I was with a few friends, and so was she. Her and her friends came up to us and her friend said hi to me, so I naturally looked up and said hi and realized that she was right there and she was sorta smiling. Afterwards they looked at me for a while, then turned around and started giggling.

Now the problem becomes that I dont want to re-friend her on facebook because then I would look too desperate after what happened. However, I haven't showed her any sign that I am still into her, which I think is confusing her and she's trying to find out but I can't say for sure, maybe one of you can! And then a day or two ago she actually friended me, but I haven't accepted yet. Because I want to at least run into her and say hi once.
My question is do you think that this is all just random coincedences, or her friends being idiots, or that she is actually interested in me? If its the last option then please tell me what you think I should do because I am very confused and unsure of whether or not to talk with her. I don't want to seem too needy or anything, especially because she is one of those people who is popular and everybody finds out what happens.

P.S. another possible problem could be another guy who was TRYING to flirt with her but I don't think she was interested at all, maybe JUST friends but that is adding more pressure for me.

PLEASE HELP ME, THANKS!

[Candoit]

please I really need good advice some1

[RockNRoll]

Why wouldn't you accept her friendship on facebook anyway?! She offered you, just click a button.
You talked to her before, so get a moment to chat with her in person (when her friends are not around) and just ask her to go for a walk or something casual, but that will let you spent some time together. You need to ask to get an answer.

[Candoit]

seriously I truely would! but the thing is this other dude that I have seen flirting with her but idk if they're together. I really want to talk to her but I'm scared of being rejected twice by the same person cause shes the really popular type. I did have a good chance with her before but idk if i still do.

[RockNRoll]

When did she reject you? Do you mean that facebook message, that your friend sent? It was that message she rejected, not you. Does she know that it wasn't you who wrote it?
I can see you fear of rejecton, but if you don't make a first move to her, somebody else would. Start having small talks with her, when you don't have a risk of being rejected.
If you don't know for sure, that she is with another guy, don't worry about other guys flirting with her. In most of the times you will be interested in girls, who are getting some share of attention from other guys already. Take your chance, let her get to know you.

[Candoit]

yeah I guess you are correct that she technically did reject the message that my friend sent. However, I don't know if I should because she is more popular than I am and I am actually scared of being rejected again although I don't even know if she actually rejected me the first time or if her dumb friends did. And she does know me because we were actually really close before the whole fb thing. But my question is do you think its worth and that I may still have a chance with her after reading how she always gets loud when im around or looks at me or how that guy flirts with her?

[RockNRoll]

I think that if you like a girl, it is always worth trying to ask her out.
Don't wait for signs from her and don't think about other guys. You do have some positive signs, by the way. And this popularity thing is a bit funny.
Decide, which is better for you: to take a chance and possibly have some luck, or to be scared of rejection. But I am a girl, and I guess a fear of rejection is stronger in guys.
I guess it's worth for you to think about these things now and become more comfortable with it, because if it doesn't work with her, you might have this situation again (because you are not the only one who likes nice girls). Good luck

[Candoit]

haha thats a good point. And i suppose that it can't get worse. However, somebody made another point how she may only be using me as a self-esteem boost since she is popular. Cause all her friends think always used and still do say hi to me and talk to me and stuff, although sometimes when she's around they tease me rather. But, you may be right and I may still have a chance but I'm just scared of ruining my reputation by looking needy and getting rejected...TWICE