I got what I want, but not sure what it is I got.

[reeners]

Soooo, a few months ago I came on here asking for advice about this guy Frank. Welllll things are going good, better than I expected! =D The thing is, I'm not really sure what kind of relationship we're in at the moment.

The last couple nights he slept over and we just cuddled and kissed and things like that. I just don't know if he wants to be bf/gf, or just friends with benefits, or somewhere else on the spectrum. We kind of just went straight from being friends with crushes on each other, to a physical relationship, and I'm not sure what to think.

He hasn't brought it up at all, but it is very obvious that we like each other ad are attracted to each other. I just ended a horrible relationship with another guy a month ago and I'm scared to get hurt again so I'm not sure if I should even get into something serious so fast.

I know, the obvious answer is to just talk to him about it, but there was never a good moment to, and I want to know what you guys think about it before I try to take the next step. I've liked him for a reallllllly long time (like 2 years) but I had this other guy in my life getting in the way. Now I'm totally free and it's awesome and I'm really excited about him. =)

[Boisdevie]

Kissed and cuddled but no sex. Why not? Perhaps he sees you as more of a friend?

[Applesauce]

if you're the type that needs to put a label on everything, then go ahead and have a talk with him. Otherwise, why ruin a good thing?

[reeners]

I think he would totally have sex with me but I don't want to give it to him unless we're in a relationship. And I don't wanna ruin anything, but I do want it to continue...

[reeners]

So I finally got a chance to talk to him since I didn't really get to see him much over the last week.

He said he doesn't want a relationship, because it's a stressful time right now at school. He also said "but i dont know if it would work with us either if we didnt try". (this sentence really confused me)

He enjoyed cuddling and kissing me as much as I did, but didn't want to lead me on anymore. I told him that I didn't want a relationship since I just got out of a horrible relationship, but he didn't wanna be tempted to do other things while cuddling and didn't want me to rely on him for comfort.

I'm afraid of getting my hopes up but do you think he might possibly want a relationship in the future? Or has this ship sailed? >.<

Gahh everything would be better if he didn't think about it so much. :/

[Gratedwasabi]

I'm very, very, very confused by his statement.

Regardless, he wants friends with benefits and you called him out on it (in his mind) and so now he's making excuses. Ship sailed.