My fiancée went from being really nice to really mean. It has been 5 years and all he talks about is getting married but when I start to talk about finishing school and starting a career he tells me that I am lame and should just relax. Easy for him to say! He has no job and I support him. All he does is talk crap, play video games and complain about not having good food in the house. WTF is he doing? It seems like he is already checked out and then he brings up the wedding that we can't even begin to afford. What is going on in his head?