It's another one of those : my boyfriend says he loves me but.... questions
We've been dating for almost 4 years ( 3 years and 215 days) We're very compatible, I mean I'm not saying we like the exact same things but we like to write, make music ( I play, he produces), martial arts, stubborn, passionate, etc. We have a lot of qualties in common. Now for the bad: We had trust issuses ( I didn't like the fact he was friends with his ex, he didnt like that I kissed another guy to get back at him for it; we're young (I'm 21 nd he's 22), we've been through two miscarriages (2008 and last month) we nitpick at one another. we stay with my parents (lost job/apartment)
I'm deeply in love with him and know that if we worked at it we could make us work, problem is we'd argue, say sorry, promise to work on it, have sex, work on it a little, then go back to our usual. He's told me over the past couple of days that he loves me but needs some space right now to work toward his future, that we've been really negative toward each other lately and lastly that he doesn't see a future b/w us. When he said the last thing I told him that I don't want a break if he feels that way, that we need to break up and maybe see other people because if you see no future then whats the point. He's going to go take care of his grandmother who is really ill right now and needs the extra care. He wants us to at least be friends (in the past I've completely removed my ex's from my life) I've said okay to friendship and if things happen to progress from there than we have to take it extremely slow. He's moving out tomorrow but he's kinda trying to stay near me even though he says he wants to give us space.

So do you guys think that we can resolve this or is it a lost cause. And if so how do we go about this.

btw: everyone who I've talk to about this thinks we're going to get back together tomorrow, and my Mother thinks we're stupid and that if this was all then she should go "break up" with my dad now. lol