I've been seeing a woman. We've been friends for some years, and recently she let me know she wanted to start dating. She's so fun to be with and I don't want to intrude into her private life. What's bothering me is, her last boyfriend doesn't seem to be an ex...yet. She asked me not to text or call yesterday while she was at his house visiting her Son. She said she didn't want him to know about me, because he is very controling and it would cause trouble for her.
Ok, having said that, my position is, I'm going to give her all the space she needs to breathe in, but at the same time I don't want to be a "back door man". Any advise?