Ive have been split for my boyfriend now for just over a year. We split because i didnt trust him and at times he was aggressive and abusive. Last year i found out he had been chatting with some girl he met at work and doing favours for her and i just didnt believe what he was telling me. I have had so many problems with him and other woman before during our relationship, people that he had met online and in the street or out clubbing so i just thought that this girl was just another one but he kept telling me that she was just a friend.
I started to get really angry over this on the phone to him and we were arguing and i refused to go and see him thats when he came out and threatend me. I was so shook up about it that i had to go and report it to the police and they put me in a hostel over it but like a fool i stayed in contact with him still because i still loved him.
He told me that i had over reacted about this and there was no need to call the police because he just said it through anger because i was being nasty to him and i started to think to myself that maybe i had over reacted about it but it wasnt the first time that he had threatend me that and in the past he has done some very unnormal things to me so i did have some fear in me.
Its been nearly a year now as i said but im still really into the guy we still talk on the phone alot and we do get on but then he wants us to meet up and then i think of everything i have been through with him tis last 5 years and just think i cant do it. All my family and friends are telling me not to go back and i know that if i do go back after a matter of time something will go on again but i really love him and this is the only guy i have ever felt this way for. He has also been good to me too and we do have good times together too but its just his womanising ways and the aggresion that i cant deal with and since the first time he was aggressive with me i have feared him. I try to tell him all this but he puts the way he acts as my fault and doesnt see he does anything wrong i dont know what to do im so miserable and finding it hard to move on pls help