How to stop giving off the "one of the guys" vibe.

[CW13]

I have this problem, that I find guys just see me as well..that girl who is one of the guys. I feel like its a vibe I give off or something and I don't know why.

For example, I live in a house with 3 other girls, and our guy friends at school might hug them or put an arm around them once in awhile, but they would never do that with me because it would probably be weird.

How do I become more approachable, and less like that girl who is one of the guys?

[Gratedwasabi]

Stop wearing a bra?
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Sorry, couldn't resist (although that'd probably work!) Are you trying to get a date from one of these guys? What's the context? I'd imagine you're more approachable from a non-romantic standpoint since you're more of a buddy.

The simple answer is to act more girly. Wear more girlish clothes, show no interest in manly topics (ie sports, cars, etc), be flirty, start hanging out with girls more then guys, blah blah. The real question remains why you want to be view more as a potential "love" interest then a buddy. Or is this more of a every guy at school sees you as one of the guys and not just your friends?

I don't ever recommend trying to change yourself to fit in better or what not. I, and a lot of other guys, appreciate women that are a bit of "one of the guys." Makes you a lot easier to talk to.

[Jonathanese]

Grated Wasabi has a point. and his name makes me hungry,

Being one of the men is actually more approachable, anyway, because how you think makes more sense to him, since the the girlier girls often contradict themselves in terms of what they are attracted to.