apparently i can't do anything. according to everybody on this forum the relationship is doomed. How do you think marriages work? you think it's all a walk in the park... getting through an issue like this is just a test as to whether you can deal with things together. cause long-term you gotta be able to resolve differences.
they laugh quietly (i.e. politely, like when someone says a joke that's not funny and you don't want them to feel embarrassed so you just pretend you found it funny). more recently her best friend and his girlfriend actually had a go at her after she said something which made me feel bad for her b/c she didn't mean to offend anyone. they got over that pretty quick though, but still i just thought it was a headache i'd prefer if she was a bit more careful around what she says...