FW: ~*~*~The right one is...~*~*~

[joseph]

Somebody once told me that :



"Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong...
it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from
there...you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and
define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things coz somewhere ,
somehow God is preparing somebody for you."





Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find
love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to
really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what
you really want in a relationship.




You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's
a compatible partnership that goes long with it. If you already knew that
you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.
You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made.




If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper
into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell for the
rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't
make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings.





Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give
yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it
all by yourself.


We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try
to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity.





We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we
love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood, it's just that we're too much dependent to them.


We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us
and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past. We
are mistaken, it's just insecurity.



But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that
"....... love isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing.
You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it,
but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make
you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it can also make
you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy..."





*........So "love" is something we just don't have to talk and argue
about, cuz it's something to feel about and we should only believe in what
we feel. So what, friend? So we might have different feelings about
"love"; if u keep arguing what is right about "love", there won't be an
end at all. So let's not argue and just believe what ur heart guide u
to......*

[grace]

nice, good points there, pretty much described one of my realationships when saying what love isnt. i wonder why i let myself belive it was love then if it wasnt. I did love him i know that much, i loved him so much i became, needy,dependant and clingy.
If that wasnt love then why did it take 9 months for me to not hurt by him anymore.?

[Junket]

"God" is preparing somebody? Just for me? What a comforting thought...too bad it's bogus.

[Killerbabe]

I don't like it. It's too much of this "leave your significant other if it doesn't work out just right, because you're just insecure, misunderstood and feel pity". Great. I call it love if it really hurts to see them cry and especially if you're dependent on them. Nothing wrong with being dependent. Children are dependent on their parents.