First of all i am a 17 year old male, and have a girlfriend that is 16 but very mature and we see each other on webcam everyday and talk for like 3-4 hours, let me start off saying that i have only had 1 other girlfriend when i was 13, and my current girlfriend is amazing but i am concerned. She lost her mom 3 years ago, so she has been living with her father and throughout the years she has hooked up with 5 guys but never dated anyone, i am her first boyfriend, and there was this hook up of hers a couple of years back that really helped her out on her grieving process and was there for her , recently she went to a church meeting and he was there, he talked to her and she recently told me that she felt happy and the moment she saw him all the feelings suddenly came back and she felt needed, i love this girl and after telling me that she told me she doesnt feel affection for him and that she loves me, she is the type of person that needs constant physical presence, and this first new relationship of hers is a long distance one, where i live in the US and she in Brazil. I visit there twice a year, on during summer break for 2 months and winter vacation for 20 days. I know its hard, we are young but i love her i want everything to go right, i know she lost her mom and feels lonely and needs someone by her side, and i feel helpless, she tell me she feels so lonely and it hurts inside of me, because i feel powerless , i fear all the time, that she is going to leave me for someone close to her to be there with her,
and I feel like i will never substitute her past guys or something, i feel like all of them will always have a place in her heart that i wount be able to fill, i love her so much
She says its the distance that is killing her and how we arent close , and that she needs me there with her,
i need some advice
We have been going out for 5 months already, everything seemed perfect
Also i bought a ticket to Brazil to go in 2 weeks and all of this just happened, i want to go there and be happy with her