Originally Posted by
Jonathanese
I will have to admit I've never officially dated, so it may be as pathetically boring as you guys make it out to be. But nonetheless, I've just been rejected enough for not treating women badly, because it's not "exciting enough". I've watched as friends are hurt by those they met out of the "he's such a hard-ass, and mysterious" feelings. Then she came to me, we had a short romantic thing going on and I helped her forget that guy. as soon as she got back on her feet, I was pushed away, back to "just friends", then she would date another guy who hurt her just the same.
So I'm sorry if I have a bit of a bad taste in my mouth, it's just I've been directly affected by the fact that women reject good guys on the premise of looking for a guy to hurt them, because it's more attractive.