K so I needed an outlet to ask this question and I figured it was alright to do so. I'm 21, the girl I'm talking to (and like a real whole lot haha) is 17. We are almost exactly 4 years apart.
I know technically, this would be illegal, but her and I haven't done anything yet except let each other know how we feel. I'm a little iffy about moving the relationship forward, not because i'm afraid she'll try to get me in trouble or ANYthing like that, but because I feel like a few people will think it's "weird" that there is such an age difference.
I mean, my parents are about 5 or 6 years apart so that gives me a little ease. And my lady friend isn't immature or stupid, she can make her choices. It's just a little bit of a thin-ice situation, I feel. I mean, if it factors in at all, she isn't a virgin so she isn't uneducated to these things.
So what are your thoughts? Is it wrong to legitimately have feelings for a girl 4 years younger or what? I don't think it is and her and i will probably move forward either way, I just wanted to get the general consensus from a pretty decent looking forum haha. thanks!