Damn, it really sucks that I can't even at the least presume to be friends with her, but you're right.. at this point I really can't do that. I'm like, the only one of her guy friends that doesn't try to get her wasted when we hang out. I've actually been there when this douche she says is her friend is goading her on, trying to get her to down a huge shot of whiskey that would put a grown man out of his senses, let alone a young girl. I took the glass from him and told him she wouldn't be doing that. She did thank me later, that's something at least.
Also, Incognito, you're probably right that she will end up getting what she thinks she wants.. she always cried that all her ex bfs treated her like crap, ****ed and dumped her, that kinda thing. I guess maybe some ppl just get used to being in those kinds of situation and never realize they deserve better.