Can somebody help me, or am i pretty much screwed in life?

[Areo]

Im 22 years old and i have a serious problem. Ok so my last ex gf, i became obsessed with. She ruled my life, she was the center of my universe, and she knew it. Because of that she was able to control and dominate the relationship. We broke up after 2 years and it took me about 6 months to recover.

Now I met this new girl about 3 months ago. We really hit it off and we're moving fast (even though she says she wants to take it slow). But after about a month of seeing her a few times a week, casual sex, and just having fun, ive become obsessed with her. I cant sleep at night because i think about her, i constantly fish through her facebook, and im just stuck thinking about her 24/7. Now I know she doesnt feel the same way, she likes me, but its nothing serious. Now because of my addiction to this girl, i've become extremely paranoid and jealous of her friends, or more importantly, her guy friends. She has a lot of friends and some of them happen to be guys. We constantley argue because of my own insecurities and i think she's having sex with them (shes a very honest and trusting person, so i know im just being insecure)

I guess i just need help living my own life, and not worrying about her. Can anyone help me? Because i seriously am sick to my stomach when im not with her. Its disgusting. Ugh

[Boisdevie]

Sounds like you need some counselling/therapy.

[damn2010]

The needy/desperate thing will push your girlfriend away guaranteed. It's not attractive and after a while girls pick up on it.

You really need to first focus on getting some hobbies, perhaps like exercising or playing a sport, or heck...take some cooking or dance lessons. Or get a job. Take a deep breath and just realize you have to be cool, calm and collected.

Talk to any family and/or close/trustworthy friends about it. Use them as a sense of therapy and counseling.