True Love Problems?? :( Help !!!

[Winterr<3]

Hi guys, I'm new to the forum this is the first time i have ever gone online looking for help about my relationship so I feel that the relationship i have is a very important one and i would like to hear others opinions and guidance from people with experience. It may be a lot to read I'm sorry if it is but i have to make sure if my relationship is going to work out.

Some History about me and my bf!!! : I first met my boyfriend when i was 17 he was my neighbor in Miami (FL) and he was an amazing guy, after a week of just being friends i fell in love with him and so did he with me,he told me he would never leave me, he knew exactly what to say to make me smile when i was down and he knew how to make me tick !!! He was everything i ever wanted, i was so in love that sometimes i thought if i lost him id be alone for the rest of my life, sooner or later his family had to move away.. i was heartbroken.. to keep his word he bought me and himself a web-cam to stay in contact and he switched his phone provider to be able to talk with me, it was my first time doing any kind of long - distance type of relationship so i got my brother to help me find a suitable computer with so i can use my web-cam with and etc talk to my bf. As time when on the relationship got really intense.. i would wake up on a Saturday morning around 8am and talk nonstop with my bf till about 5am the next day.. Once i turned 19 which wasn't very long ago i started college n i got a job as well i told my bf about this and he was very supportive he told me he was glad i had gotten a job and that he "understood if i didn't have time to talk with him on days where i had to work + college".

With enough said above id like to talk about my problem, my boyfriend tells me that i don't speak with him enough or that i care more about my job or my "game?" then him. I was the one who wanted him to play with me in the first place because i wanted to find something we can do together and have fun while hes 300 miles away from me. He knew i had responsibilities also with my job, i left my job to spend more time with him... >_< and he is now complaining about me playing games to much? I talk with him every night before i go to bed and every morning before going to school and in the afternoons i usually play for 2-3 hours with him before i go outside to shop or hang out with my girlfriends.

This is what a normal morning txt would be like between me and him: ( i usually go in at school at 8:30)

(7:30) Him : "Good morning babe"
Me: "Good morning baby ^^" and we both continue talking about our morning and what we dreamt about and how good we slept.. etc before i goto school

This mornings text was like

this was around 8:30 when im alrdy in class, i was worried because he always texted me at 7:30, so during class i took the risk infront of my teacher to text him back and ask him this :

around 8:45 Me: "Good morning baby<3 if you overslept please txt me back"
He replys with "good morning" and then dosen't say anything else.. i was in the middle of class and so waited till it finished , after class i txted him again saying that i was going home and he replys with a simple "ok"

I dont know if hes loosing interest in me or if im really not paying enough attention to him, it would be helpful to take some advice

Cheers,
Katherine

[smackie9]

He's just doing it so you know how it feels to be so called "ignored". He is being a spoiled brat. And shame on you for leaving your job for him. Never let a man control you like that. Having a job is very important part of being an adult and why be selfishly punished for being responsable. He is just playing a childish game. Don't be putting up with this crap. When a guy pushes you around like that, it's abuse. Be very careful with this relationship. He may start treating you like crap even more....

[Winterr<3]

ok thanks

[sweetkissesforu]

He's just doing it so you know how it feels to be so called "ignored". He is being a spoiled brat. And shame on you for leaving your job for him. Never let a man control you like that. Having a job is very important part of being an adult and why be selfishly punished for being responsable. He is just playing a childish game. Don't be putting up with this crap. When a guy pushes you around like that, it's abuse. Be very careful with this relationship. He may start treating you like crap even more....

very well put i agree

[devonbrown]

Smackie9 pretty much said it all on this one. Once you lose yourself in a relationship, the relationship is no longer about two people, only one.