You're stuck in the Friend Zone. The bad news is that you wasted money on this gift, because you can't bribe your way out of the Friend Zone. And if this gift is really nice, it will probably be very awkward for her to receive it, and difficult for her to enjoy. The good news is that you can easily escape the Friend Zone by turning your back on her and moving on. Otherwise, prepare for pain when she is ready get over her ex but with somebody new and not you. I've been through that a few times, and it sucks.
Next time, don't try to sneak into a relationship wearing the friend disguise. Just ask the woman out. If she is interested and available, she will say yes. If not, move on to the next woman.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.